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Pleasehelpmebebetter ( member #84706) posted at 1:54 AM on Sunday, May 24th, 2026

[This message edited by Pleasehelpmebebetter at 1:55 AM, Sunday, May 24th]

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 GotTheMorbs (original poster member #86894) posted at 3:04 AM on Sunday, May 24th, 2026

I'm using definitions in a conversation here, with you. I'm not pulling up definitions in conversation with him.

My H and I are not arguing about the infidelity; we're having arguments about care of our child and pets, who's making dinner, whether we should start recording interactions, etc.

Again, I'm not here dropping lines about how shattered my husband's soul is every other sentence, because I don't speak for him, that's not helping him, and I don't feel the need to prove it to you that I understand his pain. I think whether someone is talking about it constantly or not is an unreliable metric to judge whether someone understands or not, but whatever.

I read Gemmy's letter and also cried earlier today. He is truly an exceptional writer and a gift to this community.

I assure you, I have arguments with AI as well lol. Arguments that I can never win because the chat bots are just LLMs; they don't apply real logic to things or remember your previous points enough to apply coherent logic. That's another exposure therapy tool for me. I feel really stupid in the moments after getting angry with the AI. Helps put things in perspective.

I'm not in a tower. You keep imagining me there.

[This message edited by GotTheMorbs at 3:07 AM, Sunday, May 24th]

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