Pogre ( member #86173) posted at 6:40 PM on Monday, December 15th, 2025
she really behaved with him as a friend.
I'm sorry my friend, but...
They only had these moments that started and ended with intercourse.
Those moments negate any type of "just friends" claim. This was a full blown affair. Just because they didn't have intercourse every time they met doesn't mean there wasn't an emotional component to it. There is such a thing as an emotional affair, and it can be just as devastating as a full blown physical affair. I think perhaps this is something you might need to come to terms with.
Where am I going... and why am I in this handbasket?
Fabricus (original poster new member #86830) posted at 6:44 PM on Monday, December 15th, 2025
The fact is I have accepted this was an affair. Just I’m full sold she thought honestly she could keep this as a friendship and she actually struggled at first at understanding herself and the situation she was. While talking to her I highlighted some behaviour he had that clearly were ment to keep the affair open and that she mistook for friendship naivities (such as sleeping in the same bes as "friends").
